Tuesday, June 10, 2008

Mother to Mother


As we exited the pancake house today, Denara (our translator) mentioned a consignment shop (called "Mother to Mother") was across the street. Blythe's eyes lit up and a huge smile came across her face. At home Blythe loves to frequent consignment shops and yard sales for Asher's clothes, and always gets a special thrill at the idea of recycling clothes and getting a good deal. Given the high prices in Kazakhstan, and the fact that the children will be sent out naked to the airport unless we intervene, Blythe felt she could do some serious damage at this place. Seth was confident of my ability to do this as well. We rolled in like a tornado (think "Pretty Woman", but with used clothes). Three shop keepers scurried about displaying shirts, skirts, and shoes. We noticed Kostin's pink sandals with the flower on them (which he has worn the entire time we have known him) in the girls' section. We felt it fitting that daddy introduce him to some manly, rugged tevas. Back in the hotel room, with the clothes spread out on the bed, Blythe could not have been happier. Oh, and we went to see the kids today, too.
One of the many cheap knock-off toys which came to Kazakhstan with us courtesy of "Michael's" was a $2 etch-a-sketch. We expected to see doodles from the kids, but were surprised when Alina wrote "Papa" in Russian. We had asked Alina earlier in the week if she could read Russian, and she said "no". But we came to understand today that she does know the Russian alphabet and the spelling of some words. The board became a good medium for Blythe to start Alina's English lessons. By the end of the day Alina could write "mama" and "papa" in English, and could recognize "hungry" and "thirsty".
Given how well the water bottles had gone over the last few days, we thought we would up the ante with some carbonated water. This time, it was Alina who wouldn't let go of the bottle. She kept taking the cap on and off to hear the fizz. This was obviously a high priority gift as Kostin could not even get close enough to see what the fuss was about.


As embarrassing as this sounds, we must admit today that we have been calling our son by the wrong name. Seth asked Denara today why her pronounciation sounds like "Kostcha". "Oh, well, that's his name." How were we supposed to know? He responds when we call him Kostin. At lunch we decided we have been calling him that long enough that we are attached to it. Besides, it's all throughout the blog and we are too lazy to change it now. Denara said she likes Kostin better than Kostcha anyway, so Kostin it is! Then she told us that his name is short for Nicholas. Hold the phone, isn't his name Konstantin? To which she responded "Oh yeah, it can be short for that too." Whatever. He's Konstantin "Kostin" Joseph Kaufman now. By the way, you may have noticed that Kostin is back in his original outfit. There must be some system for clothes swapping and laundering, but so far it has gone over our heads.

5 comments:

hillarym said...

Thrift shopping AND carbonated water?! What a day indeed. That's great that the "etch-a-sketch" turned into such a great learning tool. (I've only seen it used that way in Elf, but that Will Ferrell is capable of anything.) And speaking of learning the alphabet, Miles is really getting good at the ABC song, so perhaps we can look forward to a family sing-along at Thanksgiving where Miles and Kostin (I like this name, too, BTW) lead the way. Enjoy your last few days,

hillary

Anonymous said...

Hey guys- I have been following your journey faithfully and sending lots of good energy and love your way. Just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Lots of love, Tarryn

Unknown said...

I love the bit about Alina and the carbonated water, really sweet. From here it all seems to be going well. I remember when Zoë first learned the ABC song, we recorded it I think and sent it out to everyone, we were/are so proud!
Thanksgiving this year is going to be fabulous! Can't wait.
Love
Carolyn

Anonymous said...

I finally sat down and read the blog since Sophia is asleep. I admit i only looked at the pictures the first time. too cute. i am so happy for you. the children look so happy and how lucky they are to have the two of you as their mama and papa. best of luck. we'll be thinking of you.
Suzanne

Anonymous said...

I love reading your story's. Can't wait to meet the kids is person when you get back. Have a safe trip home.

Jenni